I haven't followed the AVS threads in recent weeks (been busy at work, haven't written up any sort of review either - out of character for me, but maybe after some deadlines get behind me and the holidays are past I'll have a chance to catch up). I have used several different servers over the last year or so. If the ones you mention, I'd recommend TVersity. I have used it with the BDP-83 and BDP-93. It's robust, pretty easy to configure, and the free version gives you all you need.