I have a similar problem with the SA8300HD DVR from Comcast and my Sony XBR2.
For 6 months the HDMI connection was great. Then soon after one of the Comcast software updates, I started getting a "red" screen every morning and would have to reset the cable box every morning (coincidence?) . Once or twice I got a message about HDCP not being established (or something similar).
After several weeks of trying different settings, different HDMI cables, etc.,I started using the component cables & have been happy since.
I will occasionally try the HDMI connection to see what happens, with the same bad results.
The TV had no problem connecting to a Toshiba HDA3 and a Sony PS3 with HDMI cables.
Try component cables with the cable box. I wasn't able to tell the difference.
Oy
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Sony KDS-R60XBR2
Outlaw 990
5 Outlaw 2200's
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Toshiba HD-A3 HD-DVD
Comcast 8300HD DVR
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