Okay. I bought the Spl meter today. I went by Testtone's instructions and set the 950 volume to 0db and adjusted each test tone to 75 with the meter set at C and Slow. My Trim adjustments got results of: -6, -9 for fronts L/R. -10 for center, -9 for surrounds and -12 for back. This seems kinda low but I guess it is right. Star Wars Attack of the Clones sounded smooooooth. I am surprised that my fronts would have such different settings. They are set up pretty much evenly as far as positioning goes.
So...thumbs up on the SPL Meter. I guess I don't have the golden ears I thought I did either. Thanks to all for the help. It really sounds great.