OK, just an update here.For whatever reason,the two different cables I tried would not make a connection into the 5100, however as soon as I put a 3.5mm to 3.5mm female to male adapter into the equation it worked. don't know why.. it might be a millimeter longer, but,it finally works!
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Outlaw 950/750,Oppo 203/970 ,Definitive tech bp 7006,Definitive tech clr2500,infinity rs225 surrounds,Outlaw LFM-1 ,
Panamax 5100.