I'm actually in 4 forums looking for info. Majestyk is correct in that the AVS forum does have an enormus thread concerning the P965 it does take some time to go through it to find relevant information but it has been helpful. I've really grown to like the outlaw forum mainly because of what curegeorg points out that most of the people here are very knowledgable. I just still can't shake this feeling that if I buy the 950 that Outlaw is going to come out with an updated preamp by the end of the year. I'm really leaning to just enjoying what I have know and waiting until after the summer to upgrade.
Thanks to all that helped in my decision making.