Even though there are many AVRs and AVPs out there that boast 9 or 11 channels and support the front wide and height channels, most support is at the expense of the rear surround channels. You only need 7 channels out because the rear surrounds become the wides or the highs. It is a trade off and very little source material supports seven channels of anything in a native format. Using the XLR outputs would not accomplish much without some additional switching because it would only duplicate the RCA output so the wides or highs would not get a different spatial signal.
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Music system
Model 990/7500/Magnepan 1.6 QRs/Technics SL1200 MK2/Aperion S-12 Subwoofer/OWA3/Sony NS75H DVD
APC H15 Power Conditioner

TV System
Large Advent Loudspeakers/ Polk center/Monoprice surrounds/Panasonic Viera 42 inch/Onkyo HT-RC260/Sony BDP S590/Directv


Home Theater System
Onkyo PR-SC886/Outlaw 7125 Klipsch RF-82 L/R,RC-62 center, RB-35 SR/SL, BENQ HT1075, Outlaw LFM1-EX/OPPO BDP-83/Directv
Harmony ONE
Blue Jeans and Monoprice interconnects
APC H15 Power Conditioner