I compared DefTech and Paradigm Reference when I was shopping. I ended up with Studio/60's, but that's my preference. The two are a bit different - I'd strongly recommending demoing both (side-by-side if possible, which is what I did). Your brother's ear is the best judge of which he should get.
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