For the four input part, I'd suggest a combination of the OPPO and the 990: I've got four HDMI devices connected to my HDTV right now in just this manner (BD30, HD-A2, and HD cable box through the HM-31 and into DVI2 on my 990, and 981HD into DVI1 on the 990). Toss in some handy macros on the MX-700 remote, and it's a seamless system.

The second output is a bit of a challenge, though. Most of the good switches that have multiple outputs are pricey, as the HDMI handshake issues get progressively nastier and the hardware requirements grow. Gefen has a few options (including this one ), but for your situation (a bedroom TV) I start to wonder if it wouldn't be cheaper to buy a couple of separate source components for that TV and avoid the costs of such a switch, the long HDMI cable required, and the IR repeater gear or RF remote and base station required to allow remote control of those sources from the bedroom...