I faced the same choice last May, and chose the Onkyo's big brother, the Integra DHC-80.2.

I'm not in a position to wax rhapsodic on the superior quality of XT32 over XT, because I never had a unit with XT in my listening room. But I've got an odd-shaped room, with uneven and tricky corners and a slanting ceiling, and I can confirm the XT32 does a remarkable job of accounting for it all. Running an Outlaw 7700 through the 80.2 gives me a huge soundstage, and truly allows for eyes-closed where-are-the-band-members-standing listening.

My sound quality is excellent, regardless of source component.

And as for another recent hot topic -- the lack of network streaming on the 978 -- I can report this: The 80.2 allows me to hook the unit via Ethernet connection directly into my home network. That allows easy access to the high-res digital sound files that reside on my computer in the next room without needing a Squeezebox or an AppleTV. The 80.2's DACs are Burr-Brown, if memory serves, and while they're not ESS Sabre, they do quite nicely.
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HT:
Outlaw 7700 amp
Integra DHC-80.3 pre-pro
Oppo BDP-105
AppleTV
TiVo XL Premiere
XBox 360

Legacy Whisper XD fronts
Legacy Focus center, sub, surround and surround back
Shunyata Defender conditioner

2-Channel:
Parasound Halo JC-1 monoblocks
McIntosh C2500 preamp
E.A.R. 324 phono stage
AMG Viella V12 turntable
Lyra Etna cartridge
VPI SDS

Kubala-Sosna Elation interconnects
Kubala-Sosna Elation speaker cable
Shunyata Triton & Typhon power conditioner


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