Yeah, I'd probably be best off using pro amps (QSC RMX850 or something) and an SPL meter or Room EQ Wizard to match the gains on the amps. It'd be a bit of a mess at first, and quite expensive by the time it's all over, but well worth it in the end, I think.
I mean think about it... it'd take 6 RMX-850's for the front 3 channels, 2 for all 4 rear channels (Magnepan MMGW, or something similar), plus 2 more for the subs (each bridged into 4 ohms)...or I could get cheaper with a Behringer ep2500, or something like that for the subs.
Regardless...all together, as far as amps go, we're looking at a grand total of around $2700 to $3000. People willingly spend more than that on a single 2 channel amplifer in a hi-fi setup all the time (ridiculous IMO). After adding it all up, we're looking at somewhere around $7,000 to $8,000 for the entire audio system. And of course I already have a small fraction of what would be used. Considering the rest of the world, that's not bad for putting together what might very well be one of the most badass hifi/HT setups most people would ever get the chance to hear in their lives... not bad at all!