“and SLL, i'm still sittin here wondering...'well how is her husband?...”
Thigg, just saw this post of yours tonight. Did you see my late reply posted to Death BSW? He’s healed, (say that like a televangelists does, -sounds better )

“please excuse .... if i got silly somewhere” not at all, and you must be feeling very unanchored retiring from a routine you’ve had for years and years. And (selling a house etc?) that is a lot to have going on!