Hi rru2s;
I think you made a good choice in returning the Veoldyne. I purchased the same sub in my first pass at home theater, quickly outgrew it and have been stuck with trying to find something worthwhile to do with it ever since. It has no resale value.
Now you will be in a more informed position to choose equipment that you will be happy with when the time comes.
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HT:
990/770
Oppo BD83SE
Pioneer Elite DV-47A
Magnavox HDMR513h DVR/DVD-R
Sony DVD megachangers-2
Sony CD megachangers-2
Monster power centers-2
Sony 48" rear projection SDTV
Roku video player
JVC AL-A158 Turntable
Polk RT-2000s,CS-650,XS-650s,RT80s
LFM-1EX
Hsu VTF-1
12" Velodyne

Family room:
OPPO 970
Sony 32" direct view HDTV
Denon 3801
Rolk RMs