Congrats on enjoying your Outlaw gear. That is the end point isn't it, total home theater enjoyment!
I was just reading about you difficulties in placing your ICBM and/or your Bijou EQ in the system. I have some ideas...
1) Unless you have the proper meausrement tools or you have a friend with them, leave the EQ completely out of the system. The right tools to place the EQ into the system include a meaurement quality microphone, a laptop with a RTA program on it and/or a portable RTA unit. If you don't have this equipment available, putting the EQ into the system will probably cause more harm than good. In other words, don't move the sliders into a nice pattern just because it looks good!!
If you have these tools, you can use the EQ between the 950 and the 770 to cut any frequencies that stick out too much on the RTA. Do not try to use the EQ to overly boost any dips as this is the way you will just add more noise into the system. Also, make sure that any adjustments you do make are not too drastic. The EQ can certainly help with any peaks or dips you may have but it isn't going to fully rid the system of these anomalies without doing some harm to the musical content that is playing.
2) Unless you have stereo subwoofers, I really don't see a place for the ICBM in your set-up. If you are using stereo subs, I would put the ICBM in right after the EQ, just before the 770. This would allow for the subwoofer signal to EQ'd properly but also split into stereo.
The bass managment features of the 950 should be enough to get correct bass management for direct sources. For the final verdict on this, I would, however, post on the 950 forum about bass management with an ICBM and a Denon 5900. I don't personally own the 950 but I know there are some quirks with its bass management. A post on that forum may help solve that issue.
One more thing, before using EQ to solve room problems, you may want to look into acoustical solutions first. Not only will that solve most of the problems the EQ would be trying to fix but it would also give your home theater room a cool new look.
There are some great new products out there specifically designed for this purpose. As most would say; your system is only as good as the room it's in.
New equipment gives one lots to think about, huh??