I saw the post about the connector and decided to look into it. First off, I thought the remote was produced by the same guys that did the One-For-All remotes, but I could be mistaken. If anybody has more reliable info, go with that, as it was just an opinion from the manufacturing. . .
Anyway, I looked at the pins, noted that they looked identical to computer jumper connections. The text in the board below that 'JP1' is common nomenclature for 'jumper number 1' found on motherboards etc. I would be suspect as to whether or not this is a place to put a connector or not. But again, this is my conservative opinion and if one of the referenced web pages clearly explains this, then I would disregard my opinion.
On to the good stuff:
www.digikey.com is a supplier of just about everything needed for electrical projects. I referenced the June 1999 catalog and the dimensions of the pins (i.e. .5mm x 2.54mm spacing) and located the correct part numbers from digikey.
Connector (only the plastic piece, requires metal inserts) #WM2520-ND. Package qty 10, price $2.06 for all 10.
Pins (type 'C' I think) #WM2510-ND. I assume these come in packages of 50 or so. Either way, get more than 10 if you have never worked with these tiny little guys, as they sometimes don't crimp correctly. If you don't have the correct crimping tool, carefully use a vise or something similar. They should be under $1.00 for the pack, I'd guess. Note that there are many different material combinations available. I don't think it matters in such a non-critical operation. They may also be available in solder type, I didn't research it that far.
But, check out the web site if you think that's the right way to work with that remote. The search engine is pretty good and they have all the wiring or serial port connectors you could dream of. Word of warning, there is a $5.00 handling charge for orders under $25.00, so you might want to just order some fun stuff to play with as well. I am skeptical as to the application with the remote, but you guys know more about it than me. I chose the Pronto route and haven't looked back.
S.
PS: I'm not stepping on any toes with this post, am I???